Men often say they feel constantly judged, nagged, or that nothing they do is "right."

This can lead to withdrawal or defensiveness.

Many men express frustration about a lack of physical intimacy or mismatched sexual desire.

Some feel rejected or undesired by their partners.

Struggle with how to express emotions without triggering an arguments.

Want tools to "communicate better" but feel overwhelmed by emotional conversations.

Men sometimes describe their partners as overly controlling or dominant in decisions, particularly related to family and home.

They may crave more space, autonomy, or say they feel "parented" rather than partnered.

While often less vocal about it, many men feel a lack of closeness or emotional connection.

Many want to feel like teammates or lovers again, not roommates.

Feel constant internal pressure to be a good provider, protector, or problem-solver.

Shame or insecurity about not meeting expectations—financial, familiar, emotional, or sexual.

Feel confused about what their partner wants or how to "make things better."

Men may say they want a "clear roadmap" instead of vague emotional demands to understand what is being asked of them.

Feel like their contributions—financial, practical, familial, emotional—go unnoticed.

Frustrated that their way of showing love isn’t valued or recognised.

Express a desire to reduce conflict and "just get along."

Prefer harmony and often avoid conflict, sometimes at the cost of deeper connection.

Many men weren’t socialised to express vulnerability, so Real Life Coaching can be their first safe space.

Want help identifying and articulating feelings they were taught to suppress.