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Practical Tools to Return to Your ‘Wise Adult’
Our Wise Adult is always accessible to us. Post from Relational Life Foundation We all know the moment: your heart starts racing, your jaw tightens, your voice gets sharper or disappears completely. And just like that, your Wise Adult is offline. In Relational Life Therapy (RLT) & Coaching, we understand that when conflict hits, it’s often not you speaking, it’s an old adaptive strategy. The part of you that learned how to survive when you were growing up. That part is not on

Julio Cezar Dantas
Feb 231 min read


El propósito de Reparentarse en el Mindfulness Relacional
Our Wise Adult Self, Reparents our Adaptive Child Self. En el Mindfulness Relacional , reparentarse es la práctica de notar cuando...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Sep 11, 20253 min read


Reparenting in Relational Mindfulness
Our Wise Adult Self, Reparents our Adaptive Child Self. In Relational Mindfulness, reparenting is the practice of noticing when our...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Sep 11, 20253 min read


The Feedback Wheel: Speaking So You Can Be Heard
Before using the wheel, pause and remember love. Many partners struggle with communication not because they don’t care, but because their...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 29, 20252 min read


Los Diferentes Tipos de Escucha
¿Estoy escuchando para entender, o para reaccionar?” Ese pequeño acto de atención plena puede cambiar toda la conversación. Escuchar...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 29, 20252 min read


The Many Ways We Listen
Am I listening to understand, or to react?” That small act of mindfulness can change the whole conversation. Listening may seem simple,...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 29, 20252 min read


Cómo Pedir lo Que Necesitas en Una Relación
Cuando transformamos las quejas en pedidos claros, mostramos apertura e invitamos a nuestra pareja a una conexión más profunda. Muchas...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 28, 20252 min read


How to Ask for What You Need in Relationships
When we turn complaints into clear requests, we show openness and invite our partners into deeper connection. Thanks to my clients for...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 28, 20252 min read


Las 10 Nuevas Reglas de "La Pausa" Relacional
La Pausa te permite cuidarte a ti mismo y cultivar tu vínculo con los demás. Terry Real desarrolló y describe enfáticamente La Pausa...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 27, 20254 min read


The Power of Vulnerability
One of the most viewed TED talks in history. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston, renowned for her work on...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Aug 18, 20251 min read


Books by Terry Real
Terry Real, Creator of Relational Life Coaching & Therapy Each of Terry Real 's books is a world. His books are filled with eye-opening...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Jun 27, 20252 min read


The 10 New Rules of Time Out
A Time-Out pause allows you to take care of yourself and cultivate your bond with others. Terry Real developed and emphatically describes...

Julio Cezar Dantas
Jun 26, 20255 min read
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